The Little Book of Home, part 1.
17Feb10
(posted by stuartgrant)Hi all,
I kinda feel bad for talking yet again about going home (6 weeks! Oh, did I say that?), but as you can imagine, it’s been on our minds quite a bit lately.
I distinctly remember sitting in Steve and Marie Pearce’s loungeroom about 12 months ago discussing our expectations for the trip to Bulgaria. (Steve and Marie work with WEC and they generously offered to take us through some of WEC’s “preparing for living OS” material.) Well, recently, we’ve been discussing the opposite – what we’re expecting when we return.
This post isn’t about those gruesome details, but it was interesting to realise that we feel slightly apprehensive that “home” may not feel as wonderful as we’ve imagined it in every homesick moment for the last 9 months! This is irrational, of course. A result of having far too much time to think about it! But it lead to me thinking up a short list of highly important, but little things that we’re looking forward to being reacquainted with.
1. Coffee! It’s not surprising that this is the first thing on my list, right? I wrote about the coffee situation here, suffice to say that the things I love about coffee – fresh roasts, diverse origins, a well-made flat white – simply aren’t found here. I complain about it, but we nevertheless do enjoy Bulgarian coffee, amongst other cafe offerings.
2. Shopping that makes sense! Elly said she can’t wait to be able to go into a clothing store and see things that look nice, and feel comfortable enough to ask to try them on, and to be able to explain what she might be looking for… and so on. It’s a combination of cultural differences, the language barrier and fashion from the ’80s (and not the cool part of the ’80s which is “retro” now).
3. Growing something! Some people think dirt is disgusting. I can’t wait to get it under my nails as I get back into gardening. Okay, so I had a measly pot of coriander and dill during summer, but I’m talking about dirt I can dig in! Eating some home-grown vegies is something I’m certainly looking forward to. Sam and Dani: want me to build you a vegie patch?
4. Texting! After we’d been here long enough to forget some of the details of what life in Ausland was like, we realised that almost all of our social engagements were initiated by SMS. I must have sent less than 5 since we got here. It just seems like a fiddly, unreliable means of communicating, when phone calls are cheap or free! But it’ll be good to get back into.
5. Driving! I haven’t driven a car this hemisphere. I was all for giving it a go – in fact, at one stage we were considering getting a Lada – but then we saw a nasty head-on collision on the highway one night… and that turned us off the idea. Implicit in this list item is that I’m soooo looking forward to drivers who occasionally consider that wanton recklessness could lead to a painful death. Do Australian drivers still know that?
6. High fidelity! We’ve been enjoying a lot of new music this year. It only struck me this week that we really haven’t heard any of it through decent speakers. It’s either been headphones (eugh!), laptop speakers (double eugh!), or the external computer speakers we bought (not bad). I have a feeling that hearing music on some big fat speakers again is going to blow our minds (and eardrums).
7. Rain! It’s mid-Feb, so we’re almost finished our winter, yet we haven’t had a proper soaking for months! We had quite a dry autumn (not sure if that’s usual here; I prefer Tassie’s windy and wet autumns) and then it got cold. Which meant it snowed. Don’t get me wrong, I love snow, but when we got caught in a nice early-spring storm last weekend, I realised how much I like (and miss) rain.
Tags: Bulgaria, Coffee, culture shock, food, Lada, music, shopping, snow, weather
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7 comments so far for “The Little Book of Home, part 1.”
18Feb 2010 at 5:13 am :
Wow, it would be a bit weird to come back to driving and texting and stuff when you’ve lived without it for such a stretch. You don’t really think of this stuff, so thanks for pointing it out.
Can’t wait to see you guys!
18Feb 2010 at 9:11 am :
Can’t wait to see you either Thomas (and everyone else
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I need to unlearn the bad habit of only using my phone for an alarm or a recording device for school. If we go out, we’re usually way down the street before it strikes me that I left my phone at home. I don’t even carry a handbag anymore, I just walk out the door free and easy! (Stu takes care of the keys
6 weeks, not long hey?
18Feb 2010 at 10:51 am :
We’re currently enjoying all of the things you mentioned. Even rain. (I know! In Bendigo!) In fact, you’ve really mentioned most of my favourite things.
May I dare to add a few to your list?
1. Cuddles. Sometimes when you’re overseas, you don’t know enough people well enough to get your usual quota. I know of at least one nephew who will be quite happy to: a) meet you; and b) hug you. He’s even got a red singlet with “My Uncle Totally Rocks” printed on it.
2. Being lazy with language. Not having to think too much before speaking, running your words together, that sort of thing.
and 3. Ockerisms. Also, reverse ockerisms, where people like your neices think that adults are just being lazy with their consonants, and turn ‘d’s into ‘t’s, as in this delightful example: “Mum, Sophy has skitties.”
Ok, better go before you are too grossed out by that. Oops. Too late. Ah, well. Build a bridge!
Love youse. xx
18Feb 2010 at 2:29 pm :
#Sal:
Hahaha. Skitties. Gold.
The thing about Ockerisms is that I have this really embarrassing tendency to greet new people (if we’re speaking English) with “G’day! How ya goin’?”. Sound like a total bogan! Maybe I have this subconscious need to assert that I’m Australian?
#Tommy: I’m glad you said that; I was aiming for exactly that – a list of things that I wouldn’t necessarily thought that I’d miss. Ok, apart from coffee. I knew I’d miss that…
Chars
Stu.
19Feb 2010 at 7:08 am :
Okay – you’d expect your “nature boy” dad to point out a few nature-related things … but I wonder how you’ll respond to:
* the smell of eucalyptus
* the look and feel of dolerite
* the “aarrkkk aaarrk” of ravens or the clinking of currawongs
* the depth and glow of the light
* the cobalt blue of the sky
* Orion’s Belt being a saucepan again!
Counting the weeks!
love
Dad
19Feb 2010 at 9:20 am :
Hiya, Dad!
I’ve definitely heard of people getting all Waltzing Matilda at the smell of eucalypts… as well as the distinctive blue haze they create on the horizon. We have a “distinctive haze” in Haskovo, too. It’s more browny-grey, though, and comes from burning coal.
Rocks. I’m looking forward to have a clamber on Mt Wellington.
Elly and I are 5 books (~3600 pages) in to a fantasy series where ravens and crows feature heavily. So when I first read your third point, I thought “but we have them here… oh, no that was in those books”. Oopah.
Thanks for the comment!
Cheers
Stu.
19Feb 2010 at 11:21 am :
lovely blog
missing you
love mum
xxxxx