Dreaming in Turkish
15Jul09
(posted by stuartgrant)Hi all, Stu here.
There’s a memorable episode of Long Way Around that Elly and I watched recently which shows Charlie and Ewan’s first 24 hours in Kazakhstan. After crossing the border a guy named Igor escorted them to his house to stay the night. Igor’s wife prepared them all some food (and vodka) while Igor repeatedly made phone calls. Soon, other guests arrived, and Igor’s wife brought out more food (and vodka)… until the house was full of Kazakhs (who were full of vodka) and a raucous party ensued. Almost no one else spoke English. The evening culminated in a classic moment when Igor descended his staircase holding a guitar in one hand and a Kalashnikov (rifle) in the other. He proceeded to sing them a song with great gusto before the whole party went out on the balcony to shoot their guns in the air.
The next morning Ewan started a video diary entry with the phrase “I cannot begin to explain the last 24 hours…”. Well, after our visit to Slavyantsi, I’m tempted to say the same thing!
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We went with David, Kathryn and Aydin to visit Hasan and Emine, Millet believers who live in Slavyantsi (pr: slah-vee-aunts-ee). David has helped Hasan in running some basic computer classes in a Turkish village called Climate (pr. clee-maht-eh) and there is apparently demand for more classes.

In a nutshell, we stayed with Hasan and Emine for 3 nights, were extended amazing hospitality, and accompanied them to two church meetings (totalling 4 hours, all in Turkish!) and a day trip to Aytos (pr. eye-toss). It was a pretty intense weekend, so I’ll run you through the highlights.
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On Doing Church, Millet-Style:
Hasan is the pastor of meetings in Slavyantsi and neighbouring Sungurlare (pr. suhn-goor-lahr-eh). At both meetings I got a strange sense of walking into a Southern Gospel service – if only there had been a swaying choir dressed in blue the image would have been complete. The meetings were crammed into tiny, run-down chapels and the preachers (David and Hasan!) were energetic and might as well have been saying “Do you HEAR me, brother and sisters?”. I did hear “kardeş” (brother) used a lot!
The services seemed pretty similar to what I’m used to, though the songs were A capella or with just a drum (but with funky Turkish style melodies). I was surprised and a little disappointed that the format of the meetings was so familiar; everyone sat on chairs, in rows, and listened reverently… I was hoping that a church which appeared spontaneously in Millet culture 20-30 years ago might have developed unique ways of meeting together. That’s not just my bias for non-traditional forms of church coming through either; it is a very European style and certainly not familiar or natural to Turkish or Millet people. The result of adopting such a Western style is that the churches find it hard to convince others that Jesus has anything to offer other than what they see as Western forms of thinking/acting/living.
Having said that, God is still big enough to be using these meetings to do great things amongst the Millet. The services were also good fun! Singing along wasn’t really an option (lyrics in Turkish, melodies like nothing you’ve ever heard!) but the music was great! Elly and I also got to go up the front and greet everyone – just like visiting “missionaries” do everywhere in the world, I suppose!

On Listening to Lots of Turkish:
Over the 3-and-a-bit days we’ve probably heard 15-20 hours of spoken Turkish. That’s a lot, I ought to point out for anyone who forgot to read the numbers. Later, I’ll add a post about our experiences of learning the language, but here I want to relate the strange experience of not knowing the language at all!
It’s intense! Even in Haskovo, I sometimes have those panicky moments where I can’t remember if I’m supposed to be speaking Turkish or Bulgarian, or I can’t remember the word for “thank you” or “1.25 Leva please”… That must be what being a 2 or 3 year-old must be like – everyone’s talking but I don’t get it and I really want X, Y or Z but I can’t communicate it except by pointing and grunting. Unfortunately pointing and grunting are the two languages I do know here.
In Slavyantsi, David and Kathryn were essentially catching up with old friends AND discussing new ministry possibilities, so Elly and I weren’t really able to participate much. D+K graciously translated bits and pieces every day (this including a sermon and a memorable debate which I’ll describe shortly!) but for the most part we were listening to 100% Turkish. Of course it was fun for a while, and we’re always able to pick up words here and there. But after about 30 minutes of Turkish, my brain is fried and I have to turn it of (ie. stop trying to understand anything). I subsequently learned that there’s a third stage in this process where I don’t even realise that I’ve been listening until a random Turkish phrase pops into my head hours later… I usually have to look it up to find out what it means. It’s funny how the sounds get stuck in my head.
This morning I was dreaming in Turkish; again, not words I could understand, just more Turkish background noise. It’s weird! I’d like to think that hearing so much Turkish does some good in terms of learning the language! At the very least it causes a little healthy frustration (at not being able to understand) which inspires us to study Turkish harder!
On Multi-Lingual Theological Debates:
“Not recommended” would be a good way to sum up this topic! I no longer remember how, but after Hasan and I had finished an interesting discussion (with David translating) on what church is like in Australia, it came out that I had been baptised as a child – and not by full immersion (gasp!). Essentially, Hasan was horrified, and immediately offered to baptise me “properly”, saying that some youth from one of the meetings was going to be baptised soon. This isn’t something I’d given a lot of thought to because I suppose it seems to be yet another debate I’d rather avoid in preference to important issues. The problem was, every time I went to explain another aspect of my answer (which in a nutshell is: I made a public decision to follow Jesus, and I’ve been baptised… why should it matter that they didn’t occur at the same time?) I suspect Hasan now thinks of the Anglican Church as a strange sect, thanks to me. To someone like Hasan, from a completely un-churched culture, things like infant baptism, baptism by sprinkling instead of full-immersion, Anglican confirmation, etc. etc. are just inventions – and not found anywhere in the Bible! I can see why he’d be so fervent about it (the phrase “I’m just not sure if you’ll be saved from the fires of hell, brother” was uttered…) but it didn’t change my mind, I’m afraid. *Sigh*

That’s all from me. Tell ya mum she’s a legend.
Onya,
Stu.
Tags: culture shock, food, language - Turkish, Millet church, prayer points
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12 comments so far for “Dreaming in Turkish”
15Jul 2009 at 4:13 am :
Yay! I’m the first the comment
Well you’ve answered my question about why you guys haven’t been on Skype for the past few days. I think travelling to another part of Bulgaria is an acceptable excuse
Looking on Google Maps… ***NEWS FLASH*** A heap of coffee beans have just arrived! Woot!! ***END NEWS FLASH*** … the towns around Slavyantsi look awesome. They are really small, and really close together. Don’t see anything like that back here. And it’s all so green
I can’t see Elly hiding in that photo. I blame the lossey jpeg compression, although she could just be really good a hiding — ha ha. Anyway, your post has got me a bit more excited about visiting! You guys better take me to a Bulgarian church like that
And then I can team up with Hasan to convince you about full-immersion — only kidding
Anyway, I reckon I’ll book some tickets in the next few days. I’m just trying to work out the best options and prices. Whether I want to buy a “you can’t change your mind ticket” or spend a couple of hundred more for a less strict one etc.
Oh guess what! I finally met one of our neighbours in riverside last nite. The guy didn’t reverse out of his driveway very straight and got bogged. Gave him a push and got to meet them. That only took 1 year to happen
15Jul 2009 at 5:28 am :
Hi Stu,
Great to read not only what you’ve been doing but how it has felt to be doing those things! You don’t appear to be losing your sense of humour, and that is bound to be a great asset!
I am home sick and it’s been a good chance to catch up on all sorts of reading and blogs and facebook and RedBubble and….
Kristi
15Jul 2009 at 5:30 am :
Ps, (in a Humphrey Bogart voice) say Mac, who’s the Doll in the corner?
15Jul 2009 at 8:46 am :
Dreaming in the language is a good step. It’s when you start referring to your turkish-english dictionary in your dream that you should worry. I’m not entirely convinced I didn’t actually look in my real dictionary occasionally in my sleep.
15Jul 2009 at 9:03 am :
pretty sure i found elly…
under the third flower at the front on the right
holding a leaf??
15Jul 2009 at 9:07 am :
I reckon you can see elly’s eyes & nose… bottom middle (but a tad to the right).
15Jul 2009 at 11:20 am :
tee hee hee
15Jul 2009 at 11:26 am :
Your posts are a highlight.
Can u send some photos of you guys and Aydin and we will do something for the newsletter for all those not checking out the blog at St. Johns. I let Ross and Roger know they’re running a sect!
15Jul 2009 at 12:38 pm :
that means i’m right…?
15Jul 2009 at 5:33 pm :
You guys are too cool,
I love the where’s elly photo! I’m trying to get on skype so’s we can has a chat sometime. Man, it would have been awesome to do the cafe tour with you guys not that I’m complaining, Humph is the shizz when it comes to cafe craw buds. We had so much good coffee. There was a kiwi Barrista in the Social Roasting Company (formerly known as Octane) I really wanted to ask him about the wall of tothbrushes – I restrained myself
Hope you guys are having an even more awesome time than it looks like you’re having!
Talk soon,
Dan
16Jul 2009 at 2:45 pm :
Hi Stu and Elly
I am so enjoying your epistles – you both have a gift for writing! Sorry I haven’t checked the blog lately but I’ve got hooked on FB! We had a great week with the Oaks, Joey had a hospital visit and OK and dad’s bday tomorrow!!
love hearing about your Turkish dreams and BG adventures – I was in Lonny today and was thinking of you (last time I was there I said farewell).
Love the sunflowers, but even with my glasses on and all the hints I could still only see sunflowers! Elly is a pretty flower!!!
love us
20Jul 2009 at 3:28 am :
U 2 r amazing! Dreaming in Turkish already…. wow! We love reading your blogs! How long is the break from school work? This gives us itchy feet, but then we had an awesome time in Sydney recently with 6 yp… lots of fun & challenge doing cp there.